If you are reading this, odds are you are a proud member of the BDSM community. Or solely sex toys enthusiast. And hats off to you for that! It is excellent that you know that the happiness of playing does not start and end with our buzzy BFF. Yes, I know vibrators are amazing. So are prostate stimulators. But there are many more, and even superior, toys. So, buckle up your seat belt! You and I are going on a journey of finding out all about those little kinky things called BDSM sex toys.

What are BDSM sex toys?

BDSM toys are sex toys meant for bondage and other sexual activities loved by BDSM couples and members. BDSM toys are typically composed to physically restrain a partner, blindfold or gag a partner, or tease a partner in any similar way. While using them, people experience pain and pleasure. And their material is durable. Thus it won’t tear of rough BDSM play.

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Before you grab some of ’em

Not sure if you are already an active member or just thinking of converting into one. So, I will quickly run through few facts with you! The acronym BDSM stands for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadochism and Masochism. It is an interesting fact, but there is another acronym, far more valuable to know. Yes, I am talking about RACK!

RACK means risk-aware consensual kink. The words speak for themselves, do they? Anyone involved needs to be aware of the potential risk and to do all they can to make it the safest possible. I mean, sex and safety should be crucial for any sexual interaction. But BDSM kind of needs to insist on it. Plus, your partner and you need to have a safe word. So, if one of you says it, you need to stop right away. Now, let us go on a guide into different toys!

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Restraint Kits

Restraint Kits is a great gift set! Or, you could merely make yourself happy with it! Either way, your lover is going nowhere! So, are you ready to get super kinky? Yes? Then may I represent you a miscellaneous gear? It includes accessories, toys: everything that brings pain and pleasure. Yes, at the same time!

What you could get inside of restraint kit is a feather tickler, the cuffs, bed restraint, and much more! So, let us go more into details! Note: each thing you could buy separately too and not in the set!

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Tickling Products

Did you ever try tickling products? If not, I will introduce you a bit! There are few things you need to be aware of. The automatic sensual responses that can be felt from being tickled are unpredictable. For example, you might slip into a relaxed state or start to tense up. It all depends on the area of your body that receives the tickle and the amount of pressure. Do not be a victim of false advertising, and buy your toy at the shop you trust. If you buy at the shady place, chances are it will be a random feather!

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Blindfolds

The blindfolds are worshiped even by those who are non-kinksters. I mean, how not to love them? They are an incredible way to maximize your sensual activity. As you restrict one of your senses, the others grow stronger. But, the lovers need to have trust between each other and strong communication skills.

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Hand or Wrist Cuffs

Unless you are into that, there is no one reason to walk around with bruises on your wrist. There are so many different types, and many are soft on your hand. Their only purpose is to stop you from moving. So, to avoid hurting yourself, do not use cheap metal cuffs. Either way, start with silicone models. They are stretchy and cannot leave you stuck. But at the same time, they are strong!

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Leg & Ankle Cuffs

Did you know that there is a broader choice of leg and ankle cuffs than of handcuffs? Yup! Who would think of that? I keep repeating myself, but the most popular ones are of leather! Not my fault it is so popular material for BDSM babies! Plus, this toy comes with fake fur.

You could fasten it at some part of your leg or ankles. It is easy to do it, with a locking mechanism that comes with it. So better not to use any other object to secure it! Still, you may attach one ankle to another.

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Hoods

Hoods are excellent for extreme sensory loss or to help someone get into a role for a unique scene.

Bondage hoods are there so the submissive person could cover their head. This model stops you from seeing only. If you want to block all sounds, use isolation hoods! Or, if you are into playing a role of a dog and an owner, use puppy hoods.

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Collars

Okay, if you see someone wearing a collar, they are most likely part of the BDSM scene! And for sure, they are submissive. But be careful! Often, it serves the purpose of a wedding ring. So, it could mean that the one who wears it is in a commitment to the relationship. Rather than only be sexual, this accessory could be romantic.

A posture collar is a larger, thicker model. It embraces the neck and stops movement and mobility.

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Leashes

Most leashes attach to collars or body harnesses, while others go directly around the person’s neck, wrist, ankle. Yet, the most common is one with a clip at one end and a ring of the same material at the other. But what material is it? As you are assuming, usually leather! But it could be nylon webbing, a small-linked chain, or rope. The length in total is between one and two meters.

Do submissive people feel bad on a leash? No, not at all! It gives them a strong sense of belonging. But, it does not have to be your thing! If you feel humiliation, it is okay to refuse it!

And how does it feel for a dominant? They are very proud of their partner. Plus, it gives them a strong feeling of ownership, and they enjoy it.

Leashes are typically used within your private place. Or, it could be used openly in case of a scene BDSM club.

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Body Harnesses

A body harness is bondage clothing that can be used as a restraint. It is made of leather, which is a typical material for BDSM. And there is a strap and buckle to secure it from moving. The design itself is different due to the varying needs of men and women.

To explain further the restrain, body harness does not restrict the wearer. However, you can use straps and buckles to restrain a bottom’s arms and legs. Some models include holders for dildos, suspension gears, and other sex toys.

Be careful to tighten it up on a comfortable level. Otherwise, you can gain skin cuts and irritation.

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Gags

Do you have oral fixations? And it turns you on power exchange when one partner consensually gives up their ability to verbally express? You found your match! But please, have a nonverbal safe word!

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Ball Gags

Ball gags are balls that fit behind the teeth. And there is a strap that goes behind the head to keep them in one place.
Speaking about sizes, the choice is broad. It can be small, like a golf ball, or big as the one for lacrosse.
Bear in mind that material cannot be cheap! It could break your teeth and cause you many dental issues. And must be fully sterile, like silicone.

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Mouth spreaders

While ball gags fill the mouth, mouth spreaders the mouth wide. Still, you are not able to verbally communicate during the wear. But your partner can penetrate you orally.

Nipple Clamps & Clit Clips

Clamps detain the skin to reduce movement or create a pleasurably painful stretching, squeezing, tugging feeling.

The sensation the nipple clamp gives will vary depending on how tight the clamp is. Ideally, it will create a hit of pain. It will be like a rush of intense sensation when pulled and relief when removed. When you take it off, the blood will speed back to the nipple. And that will bring radiating sentiment and extreme pain.

Same as nipple claps, clit clips will stop the blood and then release it. This toy goes on a vulva owner. But be sure to place it at the base of the clitoris, not the glans clitoris! Also, pay good attention to the coloration of the skin. You must take it off before the skin becomes dark!

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Cock Cages

A cock cage encloses the penis either partly or entirely. The size must be slightly larger than your penis. The moment you start to get an erection, the growth of the penis will be reduced, and it will stop you from getting a full erection. Obviously, you are not able to touch or play with your penis. Further, you cannot reach orgasm, so you are left at the mercy of your keyholder.

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Paddles

Do you know what are ping-pong paddles? Probably yes! Well, paddles look pretty much the same.  What add to the force is that they are designed to hit more surface area at once. Plus, you know how easy is to put them in a bag and take it to your partner’s house?

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Whips

I have to be honest with you and tell you that whips are the most challenging toy to learn how to use correctly! So, arm yourself up with patience. It will be a long journey of learning techniques and practice. Once you know how to do it, the application will be quick and easy. But do not say I did not warn you! I never heard someone not having bruises after whipping!

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Ropes

Rope = super handy.

As all or almost all BDSM sex toys, this one is about the trust of dominant and submissive. The play could be slow and even artistic if you are a creative type. Plus, it could include suspension. And you may pair it with all kinds of plays. What about the position of your body? Thanks to the rope, you could change it, and that will bring new sensations.

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Urethral

Are you looking to broaden your horizons? The new and exciting experience awaits you in the shape of the urethral toy! But, it is no easy task to choose which one is for you! Each model brings a different sensation. Do not panic! That is why you have me. I will explain you!

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Penis plugs

This is your first stop when you are starting with urethral toys. They are small- they will penetrate only a few inches inside. You do not need to go big or go home! It is a recommendation to go little by little.

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Urethral sounds

Now, we are speaking about the most popular type of urethral toy.

Sounds are longer than penis plugs. So, they penetrate much further inside the body. It depends on the extent, but it could penetrate the entire length of the urethra.

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A sperm stopper

This thingy is a bit like a hybrid of a penis plug and a cock ring. It is usually a little ball on a curved handle, which rests nicely within the urethra.

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Prince Albert & Princess Albertina Piercings

These are something completely different from any other toy or jewelry of BDSM since they are permanent! I mean, of course, you can take it off, like any other piercing in your body. But as you know, if the time passes without your earing in, your skin will heal. Why is bring sexual stimulation? Well, you are not wearing it on your ear or nose, but on your penis or vagina!

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Bondage furniture

Any furniture used for BDSM play is bondage furniture! The most common types are racks, A-frames, and wooden horses. Submissive lay over them. And dominative lovers tease, spank or whip them.

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Restraint Bed Sheets

Not everyone has room for furniture. You might do not have a chance to get anything else but a mattress. Still, do yourself a favor and get or order one! The beddings will give you a quality bondage setup. You will be surprised how easy it is to install it! But also to break it down and hide the evidence of your little play.

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The bottom line

Kink and bondage toys could be an incredible bonus to your sexual repertoire, even if you are not a BDSM member. Yet, it always must be consent and with high-risk awareness. Not everyone will have the same vibe from it. If you think it is for you, there are no limits. Except for the submissive one, but that is a whole other level!
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