Sex is not merely penetration. It also includes so many different ways of stimulating. Sometimes an erotic massage can lead to a mind-blowing orgasm. Thus, if you want to explore your sexuality through the magic of touch, go for it! But remember, there are numerous creams, oils, and gels to help you reach your goal. These magic little things will expand your sexual routine. Ready to learn how to pleasure yourself and your partner? May I represent your full guide on how to choose lotions, oils, creams, and gels for sexual pleasure?

Introduction Into Lotions, Oils, Creams, And Gels

Oils

Oil is perfect for massaging for many reasons. Firstly, it feels warm and relaxing on the body of the receiver, but also the hands of the giver. Secondly, it is long-lasting, and you will not need to keep reapplying. And thirdly, it is easy to join essential oils in the mix.

Are there any downsides? Yes, a few. Oils can spoil quickly – you will notice it by the odour and when it separates in the bottle. Also, you may not like the greasy sensation left on your body. And definitely will not enjoy stains on your sheets, clothing, and other material.

Cream

Creams are thick (at least more than oils), so it will be less slippage. Thus, it is suitable if you pay attention to one area. Another benefit is absorption – no greasy feeling and no stains on sheets.

But absorption is also a downside. You will have to keep putting it on.

Gel

Gels are a more expensive option, but with the reason! They are long-lasting but also offer the great effect.

Is there any reason not to buy it? Yup – they tend to stain sheets or clothing.

Lotion

The lotions are a super cheap option. Yet, it absorbs well, so you will have to reapply it and go fast through the bottle. It will not leave a greasy sensation on your body. But it can stain on the sheets.

Which Product Should I Choose?

The quickest answer would be: depending on your needs. But let us go into depth now.

All sex creams, oils, and gels could be water-based, silicone-based, or oil-based.

If they are water-based, they match with condoms. Plus, they are body-safe. So, it seems like there is nothing to worry about. But then, the water will dry out quickly, and you will have to re-apply it multiple times during sexual play.

Silicone-based products will last longer and are better for anal sex. Besides, silicone is hypoallergenic and will not cause issues even if you have sensitive skin.

Oil-based derivates are perfect for massage and male masturbation. But you should not put it on your penis if you do a vaginal penetration afterward. You are risking clogging the vaginal tissue pores and provoking infections.

It is always worth noting that you could be allergic to some ingredients. You might not know what you are allergic to, so you should do a small test. Put a bit of the product on your wrist and leave for a few hours. If there is no reaction, you are likely good to go.

The Magic Of Touch

Are you planning to do massage? Great, but that is a super broad term since they are so many different styles and ways to do it. Not everyone has the same pleasurable spots – so with time, you will see what you and your partner enjoy.

Now, do you understand what erotic massage means? It is sharing of intimate touch and stimulation. The giver is stroking the skin of the receiver. The aims are the places where sexually sensitive nerve receptors are.

The product of choice will be much based on how long you are planning to do massage. Then, do you mind the greasy sensation, and is it okay for you to reapply? Plus, you might want to try something new, like Aromatherapy – the fabulous way to stimulate different moods. But then, you will have to use essential oils.

Why Should I Try An Arousal Gel?

Arousal gels — or creams or oils — improve oxygen delivery and blood flow to the genitals. Why is that vital for your sex life? Because it will expand sensitivity and vaginal secretions. As a result, orgasms will strengthen. If you cannot picture what I am speaking about, just imagine it all wetter. Sounds like magic, so you are asking now how is it real? The formula is opening blood vessels – so it is about chemistry, not magic.

How To Pick An Arousal Gel?

The main thing to consider when buying an arousal gel is ingredients. Look for the products with cinnamon oil, menthol, ginkgo Biloba, peppermint, CBD, or THC. You might have heard that arginine is helpful too. But for that one, you would need a prescription.

Now, think about sensations you crave to reach. Cinnamon offers faster bodily response than CBD. But then, the CBD last-longer, and it is more powerful. Also, cinnamon is warmer. And peppermint, for example, is colder.

Ultimately, if you have genital herpes, stay away from topical serums to avoid an outbreak.

Reflect On The Sensations

Sex creams, oils, and gels offer various sensations, all in order to boost sexual arousal through blood flow. But what sensations do we talk about? Warming, cooling, or tingling. All three are the same pleasurable on touch.

Then also, some could be scented to awaken more senses through aroma. Others are flavored and edible for mind-blowing oral play.

You might need to desensitize your penis – so your erection lasts longer. Then, look for the product with numbing properties.

Do not be afraid to match and mix various sensations. It might lead you to the most exciting erotic experience ever.

What Is The Deal About Flavored Lube?

Everyone agrees that oral sex is freaking good for the receiver. Yet, not everyone agrees it is good for the giver too. Thus, if eating your partner is not your favorite dessert, we got the solution: flavored lube.

Which flavors are available on the market? Fruits, chocolate, mint, and sugar-sweet. All yummy, right? And as you assume, the experience will be more pleasant for your mouth.

Yet, that is not the only benefit – you will increase moistness, too. That is perfect because dry mouth during the blow job is the most annoying thing ever.

Do you wish to get a bonus tip? Do not use flavored lube merely during oral, but also for the foreplay. Sip some of it on the inner thighs and then lick it all up.

Dope, But Is Flavoured Lube Safe To Use?

Yes, flavored lubricant is generally safe to use. But there is something to pay attention to for secure play.

You might be sensitive to some ingredients of this sort of lube. Thus, you should do the test on the inner side of your arm. If you are irritated, do not use it internally because you risk creating a pH imbalance. Further, coconut oil has a minimal chance of making trouble. And the biggest odds are in dyes, parabens, and fragrances.

Plus, generally speaking, you should stay away from benzocaine, propylene glycol, and any other numbing ingredient. Numbing some area will stop the pain, but the harm is a way of your body telling you to stop. And propylene glycol will parch your vaginal tissue and possibly induce vaginal infections.

What happens if you develop vulvar irritation or vaginal discharge due to the flavored lubrication? You could grow an infection, so you should visit your doctor.

Why Should I Use A Warming Lube?

Let me tell you one fascinating fact first: when you are horny, your blood rushes to the genitals. Further, it results in natural lubrication,

vaginal canal growth, vulva swelling, and finally raised sensitivity.

Warming lube is there to help us with exactly that – with blood rushing to the genitals. The sensitivity will rise, and you will have a great orgasm.

Is that all? Even though this benefit would be more than enough, no, there is more you can do with warming lube. You can use it for temperature play to stimulate the neuro-receptors of your body. Why on earth would you want to do that? Because it will produce a pleasurable nerve-tingling feeling.

Great, But Is Warming Lube Safe?

Yes, warming lube is generally safe, and it can even turn penetrative sex into safer by reducing the chance of vaginal and anal tearing.

But, you could be sensitive to the ingredients of the warming lube. This product carries glycerol, capsaicin, menthol, or glycerine. So it could be unsafe for you due to your body chemistry.

Also, I suggest checking if it contains citric acid, petroleum, parabens, or benzyl alcohol. Those tend to be drying.

Again, before you put it onto your genitals, do a skin test. Place a small amount on your inner arm, at your elbow, and wait for at least ten minutes – this will show if you have any allergies.

What To Do If A Warming Lube Is Uncomfortable Hot?

The warming sensation might go too far and end up being uncomfortably hot on your thighs. That is due allergic reaction. So, wash the infected area right away using water and mild bar soap. Then, apply a bit of hydrocortisone cream or use an ice pack to calm it down. Besides, if you have a Benadryl pill or another antihistamine at home, you might take it.

If the warming lube is not on your thighs but already inside you, and you are experiencing an allergic reaction, it will be trickier. Still, do not panic! The worse would be putting something else inside of your vagina. You need to do all the same as above – wash it and apply the cream. Then take a pain reliever like acetaminophen or ibuprofen, and rest. It should stop after a few hours. If not, or if you experience vaginal bleeding or discharge, visit your doctor for future intervention.

How To Decide Which Warming Lube To Buy?

Okay, you went through the ingredients, and you know what you are looking for. Now is time to think about how you want to play with your lube?

Will you pair it with your favourite silicone vibrator? Lovely, but you cannot buy a silicone-based lube since that will destroy the toy.

Or will you put on a latex condom? Good job that you are playing safe, but do not get oil-free lube if you do not wish for a destroyed condom.

The bottom Line

If you are creative and willing to explore new things, you will never be at the risk of bedroom boredom. Luckily, today we have so many products that aid us in keeping our play exciting. The broad collection of lotions, oils, creams, and gels will take you to the new world of sexual pleasure. Sure, it might take some time to find products that fit your needs – but orgasm is worth it.