If you have never done it before, pegging or penetrating to vagina with a dildo might sound sort of scary. But I promise it is not! It is hella fun! Because if you do not have a penis, it is the only thing standing between you and penetrating someone with something else which is not your fingers (sorry, fingering, still love you!) Once you and your partner determined you will try it, the next step is to inform yourself. You need to know which material to pick, which type, how to do it, etc. It is super simple to become overwhelmed if you are going through this by yourself. The good news: you are not! We are experts in sex toys and, we are here to tell you all about Strap on Harness!

What is a Strap on Harness?

A harness is used to hold a strap-on toy, which is a type of dildo. You can either buy a set or two pieces individually.

You can use it to penetrate your partner vaginally or anally (which is pegging). Mostly, people without a penis are buying it. But if you have cock, you can play with it and give someone double penetration (double fun). There are even some models which allow you to enter a person with your foot.

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Why Do People Enjoy This Sort of Sex Play?

The reason for this sort of play is obvious: penetrating your lover in a whole new way. It is an experience that cannot compare to anything else!

If you are both females, you will get the best from men without needing a man! I mean, the stick is enough – we will use it better than you would! And get the job done- 100% of the time!

And if you have a vagina, and your lover has a penis, reversing the roles could be interesting. Sure it was fun when he was doing you anally, but why would you not do him now?

We all get about the one who is wearing it – it is turn on to have that sort of domination. But what with the ones who are receiving it? If you have a penis and receive anal penetration, your prostate gland will be stimulated too, not to mention all the nerve endings there. Stimulating this gland through anal play usually feels good. And if you have a vagina, you can get an orgasm from either vaginal or anal holes. You may even want to try oral sex because why not?

What Are the Myths About Strapping?

Only Lesbian Do It

Funny false news! Sure, it is helpful for lesbians, but anyone can have fun regardless of gender or sexuality. Anyway, there are models for people with cocks.

Men Who Fancy Being Pegged Are Gay

Again false news! You enjoy anal because of the anatomy of the human body and the nerve ending you have there. You being scared to try it brings out the subject of homophobia, but let us not go there now.

You Can Not Do It By Yourself

Ha! Of course, you can! There are types of strap-on harnesses for furniture that you can use for solo satisfaction. Or, you can even put a specific harness on your foot and penetrate your own hole while you are in a kneeling posture.

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What is the Material of the Harness?

With any knowledge you got on sex toys, you can assume that fabric is a broad category. And, yup, it sure is! It could be from leather or from fabric. And there are things to consider, of course!

First is your taste! Some people would use nylon, but then, maybe you think it is not sexy at all!

Then, how comfortable do you feel with that material? And will you wear any underwear? You should consider if your material is breathable enough.

Any more pros and cons? Leather is more robust, but the fabric and nylon are comfy.

Is it Hard to Clean Strap-on Harness?

I cannot answer with yes or no since it is up to the material. Some of these are super easy to maintain, and some are hard. Anything that is not leather or latex you can put in the washing machine. Either way, on the package you shall find instructions.

And when it comes to the attached dildo, use water and soap. If it is not vibrating, you can boil it.

How to Select the Right Size for Strap-on Harness?

The size of the strap-on is necessary for the receiver, while the harness must match the wearer.

Now, how to measure a strap-on harness? It is much easier than any other sex toy since they are adaptable. But you must make sure it is not too snug or too undone. So, measure your waist and the top part of the thigh. Commonly, they are flexible from about 15 inches up to approximately a 70-inch waist measurement adjustment.

How Does it Fit?

Single-strap harnesses suit the same as a G-string. I would say that they allow you control, but I know people who state they are uncomfortable.

Two-strap harnesses are for those who have a bit of experience. But they are comfy.

Low-rise harnesses hold the center of the dildo on the pubic bone. Thus, you have control. Besides, they pressure the clitoris, which is hot.

Thigh harnesses go around the leg (or a chair). And they give all the control to the receiver.

How to Practice a Harness?

You might need time till you get on board with using harnesses. So, do not rush yourself, but take your time to explore. Still, I gathered you some tips:

• D-rings are more effortless to set, but they can slide a bit. So, aim to loop the loose end in the waistband. Buckles are more reliable, but you need to put more effort
• Leather will expand little when you primarily use it. So, squeeze the straps
• When you switch positions, you may require stretching or releasing your harness
• If you wish for a smaller or bigger toy, consider the harnesses with changeable rings

Types of Strap-On Harness: Basic Styles

A sea of choices – always the most entertaining part of the story! Now that you have an idea of what material and size you need, it’s time to decide which type is ideal for you.

The Jockstrap Harness

The Jockstrap Harness has an eye-catching front board, which puts the accent on the dildo or cock.

The size usually varies from XS to XXL. And if you are unsure which one is yours, measure under your belly button.

Now, you might wonder how to use it? And I got some tips for you, here too:

1. Slip your dildo or cock through the elastic ring on the frontal part
2. Drive the balls into the front hole of the harness until the elastic edge encloses about the base
3. Modify the material so that it winds around the exterior section of the pipe
4. Put the harness around your waist and adapt the waistband

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Underwear Style

• Typically, the Underwear Style will be comfy for wearing and with a stylish look. It is super easy to use as well. It is like wearing random panties or boxers, but with the O-Ring.
• If you are a newbie, I would recommend cotton for the boxers because it is soft.
• And when it comes to size, the waistband is supposed to suit the weight of the dildo.

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The G-String Harness

This model is similar to the Underwear style – apart from it would not be boxers but a g-string. Hot, right? And it is very elegant, as well.

Now, people mix thongs and g-strings. These two are not the same. A thong got more extensive material for the band that goes by the bottom. And g-string is more for sleeping, and for a romantic night with your partner. So, a perfect choice for your harness!

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Types of Strap-On Harness: Some New Unconventional Styles

Did my air condition went off, or why is it suddenly too hot? Oh now, all fine with air-conditioning, it is just our new topic of unconventional styles!

Thigh Strap on Harness

I love how simple is this model! Hook and loop pins are replacing complex fasteners and leashes. Thus, it is super easy and quick to put it on! So, if you are in the middle of the sexual act, and you do not want time to pass and calm the heat down, you will love it!

Loop makes reliable access. And you know how a regular harness is restricting your movement? The thigh harness does the opposite and offers you a chance for really sexy positions in the bed! While the whole time, the comfort is not compromised.

Face Harness

May all the BDSM lovers here raise their hands! Because I got something for you!

A face harness typically comes with buckles, and you can fasten it behind your head. The purpose is to attach different types of gags, but that is not all. They are bringing the bondage play in your bedroom, and thus they have a psychological impact.

The one who wears it will experience erotical weakness since your capacity to open your mouth will be limited. And you may even find the type which is closing the eyes too. So, you are losing the ability to see too. With all of that, you are giving absolute power to your lover.

The Vibrating Strap On Harness

I never heard someone saying they do not fancy vibrating sex toys! You can find the models with various vibration methods. Also, the control may be built, or it can come with remote control. Personally, I always go for the ones with remote control since it allows you simpler play. Even more, if you are playing it with your partner. So, they may amaze you with the sudden changing of the modes.

Either way, the use is easy, and it is comfy. You can wear it on your shoulders, arms, chest, or legs. It is always good to switch locations and see what works the best for you!

Who is it suitable for? The men and women, regardless of their sexuality, couple play, and solo play.

Pegging Harness

We were already talking about pegging and how silly it is not to try it if you are curious, only because you are a straight dude. You can find a sexy harness that is coming in a pair with a strong yet flexible dildo. And make sure it is letting you set the waist and leg strap – so it is protected during the play. And then enjoy the prostate stimulation and of all your anal nerve endings.

The bottom line

Sex toys are our tool and the path to the land of orgasms. Yet, do not forget how other things are important too. You need to set the right atmosphere and make yourself excited. It is okay to light the candles and play sensual music even if you are alone! And if you are with your partner, you still need to touch each other and kiss and do all the other things you usually do in your bedroom. Sex toys do the biggest part of the job, but they cannot work alone! If you are using a strap-on harness for the first time, it is easy to concentrate on that and forget the rest. Also, a strap-on is not only about penetration (although it would be a pity not to do that too), but you can use it for oral sex and wherever your imagination takes you. Now, you have all the info, so all you have to do is buy your model. And then keep calm and carry on till the orgasm, of course!